我在德国留学的一些问题，我需要葱油们的帮助。
我一直以来想要移民到欧美，只要那个国家有独立的司法和好一些的财产权和稳定的就业市场和较为自由主义，家境还算殷实。我来到了一个小城市，我现在非常的抑郁。我遇见了以下问题使我有了心理创伤：
1. 签证中心总是不回复邮件，也总是非常的官僚，简直非正常人类。对于只说英语的人来说简直可以用残忍形容，有一个工作人员看见我的护照在那里叹气，这使得我根本没有办法开始我的职业生涯也无法回家，很多人甚至需要等1年才能拿到预约，从来不接电话也不回邮件。最近我甚至听说在柏林有外管局的官僚在卖预约60欧元一个。这让我感觉欧洲人觉得非欧洲人低人一等，你需要求着我给你visa，虽然同学之间没有这种感觉，但我无法接受。
2. 德国人或许应该说欧洲人其实挺排外的，我其实不喜欢德国人说：你在德国你必须说德语。我很想说，只要我能找到工作或者学习机会，只要合法，让我想干什么干什么，想说什么语言说什么语言。Leave me alone.....你这样的做法其实也非常民族主义不是吗？或许德国从来不喜欢外国人，只不过是缺人矿，所以不得不开放移民。
3. 德国人如果你犯了什么错误其实很凶，他们很喜欢抱怨，当你犯一些小错误的时候他们会对着你大吼大叫，德语听起来很凶说实话。我很讨厌这种感觉。嘿我是个外国人，本来德国规矩就多，你可以和我解释，说实话这样不太友好。
4. 这些让我在德国学德语时都很有心理阴影，我看见德语书我就心里一阵抵触，（在来德国之前我还是非常愿意学德语的），使得我在德国融入更加困难。。。。有时上ig有些欧洲人的评论实在恶心，种族主义，排外主义，我很伤心，因为它部分的反应了德国社会。。。。
5. 对了我学的是经济学，您们觉得就业前景怎么样，我的英语也很不错，在德国或者其他欧美国家？大城市会不会更自由主义一些呢？
6. 我和母亲商量过去加拿大，可是母亲不愿意，她认为我在逃避，我只能呆在德国，我不想回国。。。不知道加拿大对外国人会不会好点。。。
葱油们有什么想对我说的吗？我真的很难过，一部分是德国滤镜的消失，另一部分是对于未来的担忧，我不想家庭的财产被像洪水一般的暴君掠夺和我的人身被奴役。
我真的很失落，葱油们有什么好的建议或者什么对我想说的吗？
1. 签证中心总是不回复邮件，也总是非常的官僚，简直非正常人类。对于只说英语的人来说简直可以用残忍形容，有一个工作人员看见我的护照在那里叹气，这使得我根本没有办法开始我的职业生涯也无法回家，很多人甚至需要等1年才能拿到预约，从来不接电话也不回邮件。最近我甚至听说在柏林有外管局的官僚在卖预约60欧元一个。这让我感觉欧洲人觉得非欧洲人低人一等，你需要求着我给你visa，虽然同学之间没有这种感觉，但我无法接受。
2. 德国人或许应该说欧洲人其实挺排外的，我其实不喜欢德国人说：你在德国你必须说德语。我很想说，只要我能找到工作或者学习机会，只要合法，让我想干什么干什么，想说什么语言说什么语言。Leave me alone.....你这样的做法其实也非常民族主义不是吗？或许德国从来不喜欢外国人，只不过是缺人矿，所以不得不开放移民。
3. 德国人如果你犯了什么错误其实很凶，他们很喜欢抱怨，当你犯一些小错误的时候他们会对着你大吼大叫，德语听起来很凶说实话。我很讨厌这种感觉。嘿我是个外国人，本来德国规矩就多，你可以和我解释，说实话这样不太友好。
4. 这些让我在德国学德语时都很有心理阴影，我看见德语书我就心里一阵抵触，（在来德国之前我还是非常愿意学德语的），使得我在德国融入更加困难。。。。有时上ig有些欧洲人的评论实在恶心，种族主义，排外主义，我很伤心，因为它部分的反应了德国社会。。。。
5. 对了我学的是经济学，您们觉得就业前景怎么样，我的英语也很不错，在德国或者其他欧美国家？大城市会不会更自由主义一些呢？
6. 我和母亲商量过去加拿大，可是母亲不愿意，她认为我在逃避，我只能呆在德国，我不想回国。。。不知道加拿大对外国人会不会好点。。。
葱油们有什么想对我说的吗？我真的很难过，一部分是德国滤镜的消失，另一部分是对于未来的担忧，我不想家庭的财产被像洪水一般的暴君掠夺和我的人身被奴役。
我真的很失落，葱油们有什么好的建议或者什么对我想说的吗？
43 个评论
Hello zzzwww, I'm sorry that you experienced xenophobia and probably racism in Germany, as you know, though European countries tend to be progressive, hating folks exist there anyway.
However there might be a thing or two that deepen your negative perception to an unnecessary extent of this nation and its culture, like, direct rejections are just hurtful, and when you get rejected due to your low bidirectional intelligibility with the locals or something, without polite words of comfort, it's not your fault to assume Germans are hostile and you sure can't stop thinking about the possible reasons behind it, but actually, they can be just not fluent in English and they are not used to the complicated courtesies as we do in America or the Kingdom, it's just their way of communication.
Beside that, it seems German gov always acts like you're begging it for a visa, no, don't think that way. At the end of the day it is simply running a business, of selling this society's education, residency, market opportunities etc to foreigners like you making use of Germany's good reputation internationally, which is all about capitalism kind of stuff and it's obviously its job to earn more for German people.
So as I can see, your situation as a foreigner without enough German language skills puts extra anxiety and fear upon you, yet I would say real intolerant aspects of Germany do get involved. Considering your traumatized past in Germany, and the fact that it's only education, not jobs or public services, that is provided for English speakers there, I highly doubt this land will be a good place for your future to thrive at all.
Come to the states, to New Jersey, California or elsewhere liberal, we give more jobs and pay more, much more than Germany, like 6 grands per month(for an average guy), any racists will be cancelled instantly, and you can speak ONLY English to everyone, wouldn't that be fair?
However there might be a thing or two that deepen your negative perception to an unnecessary extent of this nation and its culture, like, direct rejections are just hurtful, and when you get rejected due to your low bidirectional intelligibility with the locals or something, without polite words of comfort, it's not your fault to assume Germans are hostile and you sure can't stop thinking about the possible reasons behind it, but actually, they can be just not fluent in English and they are not used to the complicated courtesies as we do in America or the Kingdom, it's just their way of communication.
Beside that, it seems German gov always acts like you're begging it for a visa, no, don't think that way. At the end of the day it is simply running a business, of selling this society's education, residency, market opportunities etc to foreigners like you making use of Germany's good reputation internationally, which is all about capitalism kind of stuff and it's obviously its job to earn more for German people.
So as I can see, your situation as a foreigner without enough German language skills puts extra anxiety and fear upon you, yet I would say real intolerant aspects of Germany do get involved. Considering your traumatized past in Germany, and the fact that it's only education, not jobs or public services, that is provided for English speakers there, I highly doubt this land will be a good place for your future to thrive at all.
Come to the states, to New Jersey, California or elsewhere liberal, we give more jobs and pay more, much more than Germany, like 6 grands per month(for an average guy), any racists will be cancelled instantly, and you can speak ONLY English to everyone, wouldn't that be fair?
